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I was sexually abused as an I’m sexually unresponsive to my new partner. Can you help?

I am an adult survivor of extreme domestic violence growing up, during which I was sexually abused as an adolescent. I recently met a wonderful man...but I admit that I’m always looking for something to be wrong with him. He told me he loved me and bought me gifts for Valentine’s Day, but I’m not sexually responsive to him. I don't know if I feel safer with unavailable men, or if I just am not attracted to him in spite of his gestures. Please help.