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I’m not as attracted to girls as I used to be…am I gay?

I turned 15 last week, and I’ve always been attracted to girls. But lately, I’m thinking more about men, and I’m not so attracted to women anymore. What’s going on? Am I gay?

My husband doesn’t turn me on. Am I a lesbian?

I’m not that turned on by my husband of 17 years...but, for as long as I can remember, I’ve had fantasies about women. In my teens, I had a few experiences with girls, but not since then. I feel guilty that I don’t desire my husband and I’m confused. Am I a lesbian? I don’t know what to do.