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What can we do to avoid painful sex for my wife as we get older?

My wife and I are both healthy 47-year-olds who have been married for more than 20 years. Basically my wife dislikes deep penetration because she feels like it "bumps her internal organs." Is there any way we can get both deep penetration for me and comfort for her? Is there such a thing as a vagina that is "too short"?

I’m a 70-year-old with a high libido and a body that doesn’t cooperate. What can I do?

I'm 70, and I still have the hots for my wife. But my mind and body aren't in synch like they used to be. My erections come and go – both before and during sex. Do you have any ideas for how to handle these unexpected interruptions?

What happens to male sexuality with age?

I’m 35, seeing a man who’s 55. What can you tell me about male sexuality at his age?

Now that I’m 64, I only ejaculate about half the time when I have sex. What’s going on?

I’m a 64-year-old male in very good physical condition, but I don’t seem to ejaculate consistently. I have sex about 3-4 times per week. I’ll have sex and be able to ejaculate one week and then nothing the next week. I can’t figure it out. What’s going on?