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Now that I’m 64, I only ejaculate about half the time when I have sex. What’s going on?

I’m a 64-year-old male in very good physical condition, but I don’t seem to ejaculate consistently. I have sex about 3-4 times per week. I’ll have sex and be able to ejaculate one week and then nothing the next week. I can’t figure it out. What’s going on?

My boyfriend is on blood pressure medication and can’t get it up. How do I talk to him about it?

I am a 56-year-old post-menopausal woman with a healthy interest in sex. I have begun a serious relationship with a 66-year-old man, who is on medication for blood pressure and SSRI medication. He knows that the blood pressure med affects his sex life, but he acts as if there’s no problem. He hates the idea of Viagra and doesn’t want to talk about it. I love him and we talk about spending our lives together...but I want to be able to have sex. How can I get through to him?