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I am 20 and my girlfriend is 18. While I have no problems reaching an orgasm she does not at all. She says that it feels good but thats it. I feel like I am letting her down as a sexual partner. Am I, and if so what can I do?

Answer:
by Logan Levkoff:
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Thank you or submitting your question. First, let me commend you for wanting to pleasure your partner and being concerned about her sexual response. If she says it feels good, then you should definitely not be worried about letting her down. (And it is okay for you to express your concern to her). There is one question you may want to answer though. Does she reach orgasm by herself (masturbating)? If she does, perhaps she can show you how to bring her to climax. But don’t worry - if you talk to her and explain your feelings, she will let you know if you are not satisfying her.

Reviewed by: Patricia Fawver Ph.D. in Sexology

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