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Question:
Where can I get help regarding my zero sex drive and inability for arousal? I am a 31 yr old woman and I have always had virtually no genital sensation, never had an orgasm (alone or with different partners), though I HAVE REALLY tried. I have also gone to the gyno' and doctor, and tried various alternative health therapies.Where/ what do you suggest I do? I am pretty desperate, as am in a relationship with a guy, and it is a big strain, and feels like it will eventually end our relationshipo if it isn't sorted out.
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Answer: by Andrew T. Goldstein: ()
I hate to answer a question with a question but, have you ever used a vibrator? If you have no sensation with a vibrator, then I suggest you see a neurologist to make sure you do not have any neurologic (nerve) deficit. If you do experience some sensation with a vibrator, or if the exam performed by the neurologist is normal, then I suggest you find a certified sex therapist. I suggest that you contact the British
Association of Sex and Marital Therapists, BASMT, PO Box 62, Sheffield S10 3TS to find a therapist in your area. Good Luck.
Dr. Andrew Goldstein, M.D. FACOG
Reviewed by: Patricia Fawver Ph.D. in Sexology
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