Question:
Hello! Thank you for taking the time to answer my questions.
First, my question is about painful intercourse. All the time I've enjoyed intercourse, my boyfriends is very sweet and gentle when he penetrates. I reach orgasms naturally but when my boyfriends really gets in, really pushes himself really into my vagina it feels so much pleasure that it hurts. Last time I sat on him, facing back and when he penetrated it really hurt. I feel the pain inside my body about 4 or 5 inches up from the G-point. I've bleeded a couple of times, well actually, his penis came out with an small amout of blood, but still, I bled.
I don't know if my body is too little for my boyfriend's erected penis, but I would really want to hear an oppinion about this.
My second question: I already read in your web site that women's eyaculating is normal. I eyaculate a lot, but you see, the thing is that the liquid doesn't smell so good. It doesn't smell good at all. It has a very strong smell, like urine. THe color is white or transparent, but when it dries it becomes pale yellow. I'm taking birth control pills and I have been taking them for a long time.
THANKS A LOT! I'll be waiting for your answers as soon as possible!
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Answer:
by Melissa BEE: (07/08/2004)
Hi, Thank you for your question.
In reguard to your first question, positioning and the use of lubricant can help with ease of penetration. Also, get your boyfriend not to fully thrust until you feel 'ready.'
By being on top you can also control the depth of penetration. Try some different positions - some will have greater depth of penetration than others.
Secondly - not all women ejaculate and women who do, describe it as having a 'urine-like odor.' The secretions do not come from the bladder, but from small glands close by.
Best Wishes,
Melissa BEEReviewed by Sexual Health Editorial Team
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