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Question:
Im a 16yr old female and ive always had amazing sex.But quite recently Ive lost the ability to orgasm.There is no sensation at all.The day before it mysteriously disapeared my boyfriend and I tried anal for the first time and I was wondering if that might be a contributing factor to the problem.

Answer:
by Gale Golden:
(08/02/2005)
You say you have suddenly lost the capacity for orgasm 5 days ago after trying anal sex. Ordinarily an orgasm occurs when the clitoris is stimulated directly which it might not be during anal sex unless you or your partner make sure it is stimulated with your hands. Why don't you relax a few days and just pleasure each other wihtout orgasm being the goal. After a few days of this then try having intercourse as you used to and see what happens. If it does not help you might consult a couselor. Orgasms for some women are a sometime thing and will usually return if you don't panic!

Reviewed by: Patricia Fawver Ph.D. in Sexology

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