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by Megan Andelloux: (05/16/2005)
Ok sweetie-relax! The MAJORITY of women do not reach orgasm unless their clitoris is being directly stimulated. So, the fact that you tell me that you reach orgasm through oral sex and rubbing your clitoris tells me that you don't have any medical issues with reaching orgasm-which is great news for you! So, you have a few options.
1. Enjoy your orgasm before or after your partner reaches their orgasm. There is no rule that says one HAS to come during penetration, in fact it's not that common for that to happen, unless your clitoris is being stimulated by a finger or a toy during.
2. Don't fret about not coming while something is in you, or not coming by penetration alone. I believe the stat is approximately 80% of women need DIRECT stimulation to their clit to reach orgasm. You are also less likely to reach orgasm if you are fretting about when it's going to happen. The fun thing about women's bodies is that you could have an orgasm before, during and after your partner, just from some stimulation to the clit. Boys need a time out period in between each orgasm, so rest assure that all your parts are working appropriately.
So, play away while your partner is in you, enjoy some oral before or after he comes. All in all, enjoy yourself! Reviewed by: Kathleen VanKirk DHS
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