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Question:
me and my boyfriend have been together for two years and we have really great sex together,i always have mult.orgasims with him, but today for the second time he said when hes inside me he feels this warm rush and he says it is the most amazing feeling,i asked him if its me coming and he said hes never felt anything like that before.do you know what hes feeling? When its happenin he cant talk,or move.Thanks for any answers.Kerry

Answer:
by Raven James:
(09/03/2006)
Well there are some possible explanations to what your partner is experiencing and I may or may not be 100% correct as to your situation, but here go some possibilities... From what you have described, you and your partner seem very close and intimate. This bond can deepen with time, and it may just be that his orgasm is so intense due to his feelings for you that it takes his senses away. Some men report losing the ability to feel or move during intense orgasm. You also may be experiencing female ejaculation during intercourse. There is a type of female orgasm called the Grafenberg spot (named for the person who discovered it) orgasm that is produced by the stimulation of the Grafenberg spot (which is located inside the vagina, below the pubic bone and below the bladder. Your partner could be stimulating this area during penetration. Some "G-spot" orgams are accompanied by the ejaculation of fluid from the urethral opening, much like the ejaculation men experience. This could be the warm rush your partner describes. When the area is located, women report a variety of initial sensations, including a slight feeling of discomfort, a brief sensation of needing to urinate, or a pleasurable feeling. After a minute or more of stimulation, the sensations become more and more pleasurable which may result in an orgasm that is often quite intense. To know if this is what is happening, you may want to experiment with manual (fingers) stimulation of the G-spot in order to compare the feeling you have with manual stimulation, as to when your partner is inside you to see if they are similar. Often, two fingers are used manually and it is usually necessary to press deeply into the tissue to reach the spot. Either way, it sounds like the two of you are making great strides in enjoying your relationship with each other. I hope this helps. Enjoy!

Reviewed by: Kathleen VanKirk DHS

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