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I am very depressed because I have a wonderful man who I am marrying in a year and I don't have much desire to have sex. We were very active when we first met. Now, I am always either to tired to have sex or can't even stand him touching me. I hate performing oral sex or having it performed on me. I don't get turned on when he caresses my breasts or vaginal areas. I am like a log while my fiance tries everything to pleasure me. i feel horrible and promises to try to be more horny but it has not happened. I am now getting so depressed about it. I want to be able to pleasure the one I love. It is the only thing that bothers us. We are so happy otherwise. Please help me. Let me know what is wrong with my body or mind perhaps.
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Answer:
by Rajendra Sathe: (07/02/2004)
Birth control pills are known to cause the problem you mention. Try stopping them for 4-6 months (and use condoms instead) and check what happens. His excessive touching and caressing seems to bother you- have you spoken to him about it. Let him know without making him feel hurt. Back pain or any other pain in the body can be a sex dampner. Visit your doctor to know why you have this problem. Popping painkillers will help temporarily. You need a permanent solution to your problem. Reviewed by Sexual Health Editorial Team
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