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by Larry Siegel: (07/08/2004)
Hi and thanks for taking the time to write in. I think your initial thought is the best one: the only way to know for sure is to see your doctor or family planning professional (like Planned Parenthood). I hope you understand that it is impossible to be able to make a diagnosis via email, not to mention the fact that I am not a medical doctor. Only an examination can tell what is going on.
I would be suprised if what you're experiencing has anything to do with being allergic to semen. It is quite possible that you're experiencing something more like chaffing. When a woman is not sufficiently wet during intercourse, the friction from his penis could cause irritaion to your vulva. It can also be caused by his pubic hair rubbing against your vulva (if he shaves his pubic hair, the stubble could be even worse!). You can try an over-the-counter product like hydocortisone cream or something specifically made for vaginal irritation. If it persists and you don't see any improvement after a day or so, definitely see a doctor.
I hope this was of some help to you. Good luck and I hope it's nothing to worry about. If nothing else, allow this to be a reminder of how important proper lubrication and wetness is. You may even wish to keep some water-based lube handy for future occassions.
Take care and be well. Peace.
Larry SiegelReviewed by Sexual Health Editorial Team
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