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Question:
Sometimes after rigorous sex my penis will feel very raw and have minor abrasions on it that take a few days to heal, this will often cause me to have an outbreak of Herpes as well. Is there a topical cream or some sort of healing balm you might recommend to put on the penis after such rigorous sex?

Answer:
by Annette Owens:
(05/19/2004)
First of all you need to rule out that you do not have a yeast infection, which can also present with abrasions. In this case the lesions would not heal without treatment. You and your sexual partner (female or male) would have to be treated with yeast infection medication, which can be purchased over the counter. In your additional notes you wrote that you usually treat your penis by soaking it in water with lavender oil. I would recommend staying away from anything with a scent, such as lavender oil. Men and women's genitals are very easily irritated, and it is recommended to only use hypoallergenic products. Your best choice would be to use a little Polysporin ointment on the abrasions and Vaseline ointment on the affected area. I would even stay away from Vitamin E skin oil, since it may irritate your skin. If you are not already using personal lubricant, such as Astroglide or KY-Jelly during sex I would recommend doing so. It is very important for you to keep the friction as low as possible in order to prevent abrasions. Re-apply the lubricant periodically throughout lovemaking. You can purchase a lube-sampler from Good Vibrations at www.GoodVibes.com and probably find a lubricant you like. Different lubricants vary with respect to consistency and taste. Since you only mentioned your herpes infection in passing, I assume that you are well informed and do not need any advice or information with regard to this issue. Sincerely, Annette Owens, MD PhD

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