Most girls don't like being 'fingered' It is rough and unpleasant. Gentle stroking, and even oral sex may be more to her liking. If she is not into oral sex, maybe you could use a small dildo or jelly vibrator with lubricant applied to the tip. Take it slowly, let her guide and direct you to what feels good, he depth of penetration and what she wants you to do next.

Good Luck, Melissa BEE

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