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i have never given or recieved oral sex but i was wondering how to please my partner in oral sex and what he really wants?
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Answer:
by Konstance McCaffree: (06/07/2004)
This is a wonderful question and I hope my answer won't frustrate you. The only way you will know what your partner wants is to ask him. I can't predict because I am not him what he would want.
Somehow in our culture we think we should know how to kiss, have intercourse, perform oral sex just the way a partner would like. Yet each of us is different and finds the sexual arousal different and therefore would want the behavior to be as we might like it. I could say to you that a man always enjoys having oral sex with your mouth sucking on the very end of the penis. That would be terribly wrong of me, because I don't have any idea how your partner would like it. He may not know either until the two of you experiment. That is what all sexual intimacy and closeness is about. Finding out together with a partner what feels good, what is arousing and what we would enjoy TOGETHER! So, I recommend that if you want to surprise your partner with oral sex, surprise him by telling him that you want to know what he would like you to do. He must teach you all the different ways he would enjoy it. And you can experiment together.Reviewed by Sexual Health Editorial Team
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