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Question:
Okay, I normally don't like doing stuff like this but i really need some piece of mind.

*takes deep breath*

A few days ago me and my GF were fooling around and I think i may have gone a bit to far, I had been having little drops of precum come out of me for some time and.....this is kind of hard to explain...

I "teased" the inside of her vulva with my head(I never went in her though), I think i may have gotten a small amount of precum up near the top of her vagina near her clit. Is there a risk of pregnancy from this??? I mean i had masturbated before but i always take a pee when i finish. This is just bugging the life out of me.

As soon as i did that i then masturbated and ejaculated onto her stomach and chest, a few drops of cum got on her panties(while she was also masturbating), after that she toweled my stuff off of her and We both promptly got up and showered, I have a massaging shower in my bathroom on a long hose and she soaped herself all over multiple times(inside and outside her vagina) and rinsed herself out and off(she rinsed herself out for a long time.....)My question is, is she at risk of getting pregnant from this??(we are both still virgins, I have never gone inside her unless you count her mouth,though i do not think she has her hymen anymore...). Please I really need a reply soon, This is bothering me alot.

I may also mention that whenever i noticed precum i had her suck it off/wipe it off.....If that helps at all.


Answer:
by Scott Gross:
(07/21/2005)
Hi and thanks for your question. We get a very large number of questions like this one here at sexualhealth.com, and hopefully you might have found some comfort in those answers since this one was a long time coming. Yes, there is a chance that your girlfriend could have gotten pregnant from your activity, but the chances are pretty slim. New research indicates that precum does not contain sperm unless a man has just previously ejaculated and has not peed inbetween the two stimuli. If you had been peeing inbetween ejaculations then there probably wasn't any sperm in your precum when you were rubbing your penis on her vulva. Also, you mentioned that some semen got on her panties, and you need not worry about that because semen cannot pass through clothing or hair for that matter. On the other hand, you both being virgins has nothing to do with whether or not you can get pregnant, and her having or not having a hymen has very little to do with her being a virgin or her ability to get pregnant. In our modern world of tampons and plenty of athletic opportunities for women, very few women have intact hymens that noticeably break when they first have intercourse. I think you're probably in the clear on this incident, but the lesson to take away is that it would be best to keep the tip of your penis away from her vaginal opening if you're at all worried that there might be precum or semen present which might get her pregnant. There are a wide variety of sexually pleasing activities that you two can enjoy that don't carry the worry of pregnancy along with them (not to mention STD/STI's). Good luck, and don't hesitate to ask us any other questions that might come to mind. Scott Gross

Reviewed by: Patricia Fawver Ph.D. in Sexology

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