I am a virgin, however, I have been dating a guy and of course the issue of sex has arose. We both think that sex is something we might want to engage in in the future if our relationship continues in the positive way it has been. I do have some concerns though; there is a height issue. My boyfriend is 6'4" and I am only around 5'2-3" tall. I was wondering what you think may be some good positions for us. I want to feel close to him during sex; I still want to be able to kiss him and hold him, but it seems like it might be hard to do these things while having sex with someone who's more than a foot taller than me. I could be wrong though, so this is why I'm asking. Are there any positions that might suit us well? Any other advice would be helpful as well. Thanks for your time.

Unless you are having sex while standing, the height issue is not really relevant.

There are many positions to try, and you will find many that are 'just right' for you both. You may have problems standing and kissing and cuddling, but that can easily be fixed by sitting on his lap, or sitting or laying down in any position. If you both like to dance, you may need to invest in some high-heels.

Best Wishes, Melissa BEE

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