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Question:
I am very excited when me and my fiancee are in
foreplay but in the 4 years and 1 kid later I have only
orgasmed maybe 3 times. I don't know what is wrong? I
always end up masturbating but I don't stick my fingers
inside my vagina I rub outside. Is that weird? Do you
know why. I want to fix this I love making love to the
person I love I just want to get more out of it like he
does.
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Answer:
by : (05/13/2004)
You are not alone in finding that it is hard for you
to have an orgasm during intercourse and you are
definitely not weird. Many women have this problem
and it usually involves inadequate stimulation of the
clitoris. During masturbation the clitoris is directly
stimulated. The positions that you use during
intercourse can also make a difference. Many women
find that it is easier to have an orgasm if they are on
top. Also making love while positioned side by side
allows for the hands to be free. Free hands then can be
used to explore and massage various parts of the body
such as the clitoris. If you have a VCR you might
consider buying a copy of Becoming Orgasmic. Offers
great suggestions for ways you and your partner can
work together to improve the frequency of your
orgasms.
Reviewed by Sexual Health Editorial Team
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