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I have been dating a woman for a month now. I
can satisfy her orally, but not during intercourse. She
has had this problem with past partners. She says she
sometimes feels something, but that it doesn't last long.
How can I make her orgasm with intercourse. I have
never had this problem with previous lovers.
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by : (05/13/2004)
The first thing that you and your current girlfriend
should be made aware of is that she is not alone with
her orgasmic difficulties. Many women find it hard to
have an orgasm through just intercourse alone. Most of
these women require direct stimulation of the clitoris
to have an orgasm. By performing oral sex on your
girlfriend you are providing her with direct clitoral
stimulation. To help increase clitoral stimulation during
intercourse there are a few different things that you
may wish to try.
The position that you use when engaging in intercourse
can have a large impact on the amount of clitoral
stimulation your girlfriend is getting. Having your
girlfriend on top when your engaging in intercourse will
provide for more direct clitoral stimulation. Another
great way for enhancing clitoral stimulation is engaging
in intercourse in a side-by-side position. This position
allows for hands to be free to explore and caress
various body parts including the clitoris. As you explore
each other's bodies you may also find out about other
erogenous zones. With hands being free you cannot
only manually stimulate the clitoris but you also have
the possibility of using a vibrator to stimulate the
clitoris or other sexually responsive parts of the body.
It may take some time to find what will work the best
so remember it is important to have patience and to be
able to openly discuss these issues with your partner. I
wish you my best!
Reviewed by Sexual Health Editorial Team
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