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Hello, I'm an 18 year old gay man who recently had anal sex for the first time. It was excellent except that my boyfriend at the time wasn't able to get all of his penis inside without causing me a lot of pain. He was about 5 inches and my question to you is, does the anus stretch over time (depth wise) with a lot of use? Is there anything such as a dildo or butt plug that I can buy in order to help?

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by Patricia Fawver:
(09/09/2009)
The anus won't stretch over time depth-wise, but with experience, you likely will learn through movement, positions, and breathing, how to accomodate greater length. I suggest you read up on some of Joseph Kramer's work or Jack Morin's work. Both have written thoroughly on this subject and I believe you will find some excellent tips.

Meanwhile, be patient with yourself. You are learning and having new experiences. Just concentrate on having fun and pleasure and the rest will eventually come. Take care, Patricia Fawver Ph.D.

Reviewed by: Kathleen Scarbo (VanKirk) DHS

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