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me and my girl want 2 have anal sex but i'm not sure if its safe we both are healthy, disease free (including stds, aids, etc.) so can i have anal sex without a condom and ejaculate in her anus without fear of pregnancy, stds, diseases, or any other negative effect?

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by Georgan Gregg:
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It’s possible to have anal intercourse safely, but you if want your fingers &/or penis in her vagina after being in her anus, they must be washed well first. She can get vaginal infections & cystitis very easily, otherwise. Many people enjoy anal intercourse safely. Remember to be very aware of the bacteria that are present in the anus so that you don’t transfer potential disease. To more easily avoid these disease risks, I recommend that you use a condom. You’ll need a new condom before having vaginal intercourse or oral sex. Be sure to use plenty of lubrication during anal penetration, take your time so that you can relax the sphincter muscle (which holds in bowel movements), & be SURE to wash anything that’s been in her anus before it goes into her vagina—or any other opening in her or your body. As the person being entered, she should control the activity so that it doesn’t hurt. If you experiment over time, you may both come to enjoy anal intercourse. But don’t force penetration. Let us know if we can be of further help.

Reviewed by: Patricia Fawver Ph.D. in Sexology

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