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1. My erection doesn't last long. This is killing the excitement and joy of sex and being togetther.
2. I ejaculate prematurely, too fast, may be in 5 to six strokes after foreplay ! Bad, both of us are not able to enjoy.
3. My organ stands just about 3 inches when erect. This has become a complex. Is there a way to increase the size?
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Answer:
by Robert Birch: (05/26/2004)
First, it is very normal for a man to masturbate and it is clear that you do not do so to the extent that you are unable to perform with your partner. In fact, if you stop masturbating, you will probably ejaculate even faster during intercourse. Appaently your partner has learned what a lot of women have learned - that it is easier for a woman to orgasm with foreplay than it is during intercourse. This is very normal and I hope you will continue to give your partner great pleasure and satisfaction before beginning intercourse.
There are ways to learn better control. My book, MALE SEXUAL ENDURANCE, is being printed in India and you might want to e-mail the publisher at orpheus@india.crosswinds.net and ask when and where the book will be available. It takes time and patience to learn, but I will offer you some suggestions. Try to stay as relaxed as you can and do not hurry your foreplay. As you have been doing, if you feel you are going to lose control, pause. You want to do this during foreplay and during intercourse. I think men last longer if they are passive, so when you have intercourse, lay on your back and relax completely. Do not move! Have your partner mount you and have her move. Stop her each time you feel you are going to lose control, and do not wait too long before doing so.
Now, with regard to the size of your penis... I would be a millionaire if I knew of a save, reliable and guaranteed way to increase the size of a man's penis. There are pills, potions, and pumps being sold for this purpose, but none of them work! As men, we need to accept what we were born with and make the best of it. As you partner has taught you, we not only make love with our penises, we make love with our hands and our mouths. Just be a playful and skillful lover with all your parts and your partner will be very happy.Reviewed by Sexual Health Editorial Team
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