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My first question is can I use some kind of local anesthesia (delay spray) to prevent premature ejaculation?? is this harm full or not. If it is, then what else should I do??. What about viagra and other medicines?? are they helpful in the case above or they are just to get eraction??
is there a permanent answere to rapid ejaculation?
Second question is that is it for sure that you'll get HIV if you have sex with someone infected, but no one get released. How much is the life of an HIV infected person.
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by Georgan Gregg: ()
Ejaculating before you &/or your partner are ready is a very common situation. I’m not familiar with the spray you asked about, & yes Viagra is to assist with erection. The good news is that you can learn to control the ejaculatory process. I recommend Bernie Zilbergeld’s book “The NEW MALE Sexuality.“ Specific help for developing ejaculatory control is detailed there. By the way, this is a great book for women to read, too.
Here are the basics:
·Ejaculation is a reflex that can be controlled while enjoying high levels of sexual arousal
·Bernie’s program for developing ejaculatory control can help a man learn to more fully attend to his own sensations of arousal & make behavioral changes that will prevent or delay ejaculation
·Bernie explains exactly how to talk to yourself about ejaculation more productively, to breathe properly (which helps!) & to do a series of exercises alone & then with a partner
Your question about HIV transmission and ejaculation is a good one. “Release,” orgasm, or ejaculation isn’t necessary for HIV to be transmitted. HIV can be in pre-cum (the fluid released long before ejaculation) & female lubrication, present whether or not she orgasms. Having sex with someone who’s infected with HIV won’t guarantee HIV transmission, just like being around someone who’s got a cold doesn’t mean for certain you’ll catch a cold.
As to how long an HIV-positive person can live, that depends upon their general health, whether they are under the care of an AIDS-knowledgeable & sensitive doctor & many other factors—some of which we just don’t understand at present. I can tell you that it can take as long as 10 years before a person has HIV-related symptoms.
Good luck & contact us again if we can be of help.Reviewed by: Patricia Fawver Ph.D. in Sexology
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