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Question:
I am involved intimately, but not to the point of intercourse w/ a 62-year-old man (I'm 62 also) He has never been married, but has had many sexual affairs. He is healthy; a self-employed small businessman whose job is stressful & physically taxing as well. We smooch, pet & I stimulate him (quite easily) to a huge erection -- but he doesn't ejaculate. Is ejaculation needed for his complete satisfaction? What would be reasons for it not to occur? What should I/how should I "handle" this situation?

Answer:
by Mitchell Tepper:
(07/20/2004)
Whether ejaculation is needed for your partner's complete satisfaction is something that only he can answer for you and you have to take the answer at his word. That being said, pleasure, orgasm, and complete satisfaction are all possible without ejaculation and some men even practice toward that goal. Others who measure their satisfaction my the distance they can shoot are going to be devastated if they don't ejaculate. Reasons for not ejaculating vary and can be related to stress, physical fatigue, neurological conditions, psychological reasons, or just the need for more intense stimulation. It seems like you will have to "handle" this one with your mouth. Talk to him and find out what he needs for complete satisfaction! Thank you for contacting The Sexual Health Network.

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