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hello i am 16 and i have had a problem recently i have been masterbating 3-4 times a week recently since i was around 12 and between the ages of 12-14 i probably did it more then 3-4 times a week, and recently when i was going to have sex with my partner and i ejaculated about 2 seconds after the head of my penis penatrated her vagina, it was a very embarrasing moment for me, i was wondering if masterbation has cause premature ejaculation or if it was just anxiety and all mental, if so what could i do to help either problem, i read on this site "http://www.actionlove.com/cases/case12109.htm" that over masterbation causes hair loss, back pain, and pre mature ejaculation as well as other things, the sites i have been to have always said diffrent things so i decided to write into this and see what the problem is please help and tell me what i could do to fix my problem weither it be over masterbation(please tell me how long it owuld take to go back to normal, if possible) or if it is anxiets(how to get over it) thanks alot.
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by Brian Zamboni: (03/24/2006)
Masturbation does not cause premature ejaculation nor does masturbation cause hair loss or back pain. These are some common stereotypes or myths about masturbation. When receiving sexual health information, it is important to make sure that the information you receive comes from a qualified health professional.
It is common for teenagers or young adults, particularly males, to masturbate frequently. There is not a normal or proper number of times to masturbate per week. It is important to make sure that masturbation does not interfere with your daily functioning, such as getting work done. It is also important to feel that you can control when you masturbate (e.g., being able to control when and where you masturbate). It is natural to have sexual feelings or urges and it is normal to masturbate as one way of expressing sexual feelings.
When it comes to premature ejaculation, it is normal to ejaculate quickly if it is a man’s first time having sex or if he has not had sex in a long time. Worrying too much about when you ejaculate is not helpful to any sexual activity.
Consider taking more time to masturbate when you do masturbate—this will help you when having sex with your partner. Also, do not focus all of your stimulation or your partner’s stimulation on your penis. Focus more on various forms of kissing and touching other parts of each other’s bodies. In general, consider focusing upon other aspects of sexual behavior when having sex with your partner, rather than when you ejaculate.
Reviewed by: Patricia Fawver Ph.D. in Sexology
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