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I am a 19 year old m. single. I have never had sex with anyone . But every two or three days (average) I have wet dreams and I think that is too much.Should I visit a doctor? I am worried about that.I become stimulated very easily and often with no reason.
and I don't like it.
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thank you in advance
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Answer:
by Konstance McCaffree: ()
I apologize for taking so long to answer you. It is the holiday season here in the U.S. and it is hard to get to all the questions that are being asked when there is also so much else to do.
Let me answer your question by saying that there is no reason for you to see a doctor. Your response at your age is a very normal one. Having a wet dream every 2-3 days is not at all unusual.
Becoming stimulated easily is also very normal because your body is now mature and producing normal amounts of hormones which makes your body very responsive to sexual arousal. This is what is supposed to be happening. Our bodies are very sexual and even when we don't have a partner, they work very well to respond to sexual feelings and touching.
You mentioned in your profile that you used to masturbate and I hope that you still are. This is a good way to release the sexual build up that your body naturally creates for you. You get erect and excited for no reason you said, but there is a reason. In order for us to be able to procreate and have children, as well as enjoy the pleasures of sex, our bodies need to enjoy the feeling of sexual arousal and orgasm. This is natural and normal.
If you masturbate daily or several times a week, you may relieve some of the wet dreams you have, but notice I say "may". You may be one of the lucky men who finds their body very responsive to sex. During masturbation you can learn to see how the body works and what you need to do to speed up or slow down the ejaculation. All of these are things you may need when you eventually have sex with a partner. In order to engage in pleasuring with someone else, you may need to change your timing some. This is a good time to learn how your body reacts.
Thanks for asking the question and if you have others please feel free to ask more.Reviewed by: Patricia Fawver Ph.D. in Sexology
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