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ok i am not having sex but my boyfriend and i have fooled around in other ways. ie. fingering and handjobs. anyways my question is the other day i was fooling around with my boyfriend we were both fully clothed (i had my underwear and sweatpants on he had his underwear and basketball shorts on) i was giving him a handjob then he ejeculated i did not get any on my hands but i was straddled on top of him sitting on his legs the next morning i woke up and noticed little white spots on my pants no where near my vaginal area is there any way i can be pregnent from this??? i also have another question one day i was wearing underwear and my boyfriend was wearing his boxers and he rubbed his penis againt my vagina but he did not cum can i also be pregnant froem this??? please help me i am very scared please help me
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by Megan Andelloux: (08/28/2005)
Ok darling, rest assured it is almost impossible to get pregnant from what you have told me. Semen needs to be able to reach the vagina or the vaginal opening in order to get pregnant. So from what you have described, none of that occured. The main question I have is are you using birth control? If you are sexually active, and you are from what you have described, you should be using a realible form of birth control. There are many options available, and you can get birth control without your parents knowledge or approval by going to Women's Health Clinic's like Planned Parenthood. You can learn where a clinic is in your area by going to their website @ www.ppfa.org or calling a toll free number 1-800-230-PLAN. You could also go to a Gyno doctor and ask if they will keep your visits confidential from your parents. It is not bad to plan ahead in terms of protecting yourself against pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases. What is bad, is not doing anything to protect yourself. You have options in terms of your birth control like getting The Pill, The Patch, Nuvaring, Condoms, The Shot (Depo Provera)and Emergency Contraception. Emergency Contraception are two pills a woman takes AFTER she might have been exposed to semen which could have led to pregnancy. You must take the two pills within 72 hours AFTER the exposure occured for it to work and it PREVENTS pregnancy by changing the lining of the uterus so the fertilized egg can't implant onto the lining. It is NOT an abortion because if you are pregnant and take it, you will remain pregnant. It is a good thing to have on hand, and you can purchase it before an accident happens, so you are prepared if something happens.
I do recommend that if you two are going to be grinding (penis rubbing up against the vaginal opening) he should have a condom on to prevent any semen coming out unexpectedly. Condoms are free at Planned Parenthood and most women's health clinics.
If he ejaculates on your hand, go wash your hand off and then you don't have to worry about touching yourself.
If you follow these instructions, you can gain some peace of mind that you won't get pregnant and thus you can kiss away!
Good luck and thanks for writing in!Reviewed by: Patricia Fawver Ph.D. in Sexology
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