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Question:
my girlfriend have been trying to have sex for a while now and we have had some problems. I have a 5 inch penis and when ever i try to enter into her vagina, my penis pushes away from it. THis has happened alot so we checked the size of her vagina. She is not a virgin but the size of her vagina barely opens up an inch. We have tried several positions to put my penis into her but have had no sucess. I have even tried alot of lubricant on my penis and her vulva but still no help. Now all we can do is masturbate together because she does not want to have anal sex which i can understand.

Answer:
by Megan Andelloux:
(06/16/2005)
Ok it sounds like a trip to the doctor is in order. Probobly not what you wanted to read but she may have a condition in which her vaginal muscles spasm when something tries to enter it, this would be called vaginismus. Or, she could be nervous. The vaginal muscles will clamp down, almost in a lock down position if she's nervous. She should go see a doctor, a gynocologist, about this problem, because a doctor can help her out in fixing it. The good news is is that your penis is not too wide for her to handle (remember, the vagina can stretch to allow a baby through!) So, a simple trip to the gyno, telling them everything you told me will surely do the trick. Good Luck and thanks for writing in! Megan Andelloux

Reviewed by: Patricia Fawver Ph.D. in Sexology

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