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Question:
Im 15 year old girl and i havent had sex yet, but i want to but im scared my vagina hole is to small i have tryed inserting my fingers i can only fit one into my vagina...what shall i do when i get to the stage of having sex,im scared incase they can get the penis in...please help.

Answer:
by Blair Glaser:
(11/15/2005)
It is hard to think about such a small opening making space for anything . . .even a finger! However, remind yourself that you came out of a space that was once as big as your vagina now. The vagina stretches. You are young and just might be a bit ahead of yourself. When you are closer to having sex, having a patient and gentle partner helps. So does the proper amount of lubrication. Either you, by yourself, or you and your partner can massage bulgari rose oil inside the vagina with a finger, which will help the vaginal walls to stretch more easily. Relaxing helps too, and I encourage you to do so about this issue, because I have a sense that when you are ready, it will all be fine.

Reviewed by: Patricia Fawver Ph.D. in Sexology

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