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I have seperated with my last girl (with whom i was for 3 years) 8 months ago. Now i am not interested in having a relationship. I am 23 i want to have some fun before getting into an other relationship. That is the reason we broke up with my ex-girl we felt like we were lack of experiences.
THE PROBLEM is that during these last 8 months it has been very difficult to have sex with a girl for whom i feel nothing... Most of my friends do not have this problem and i feal a little wierd!
For example i am dating the last week with a girl : i have almost nothing in common with her, she is beytifull , at first thought i would like to have sex with her but at second thought..i believe she wants more than just one night with me and i don't want to have sex with her and then disppear letting her thing i'm an idiot.
Please help me i am in big need for sex but i do not know if this the right way...thanks
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Answer:
by Sandra L. Caron: ()
i think each of us has our own context in which good sex happens - for some people the context is with a fine looking partner, for others there needs to be an emotional connection. I think what you are experiencing is normal - especially as you describe your previous relationship. I would encourage you to have the fun that you seek - but follow your feelings in terms of wanting to wait until it feels right for you (not what's right for your friends). Best wishes!Reviewed by: Patricia Fawver Ph.D. in Sexology
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