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My problem is me and my boyfriend of 1 year have both been wanting to explore new regions and new ways of having sex or mastibating for each other my question is what other ways is there of sex after from normal and anal because other than those which we have tried doesn't seem risk taking we both feel that a new position or a new angel could spark us off again like the first time we have sex
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by Blaise Parker: ()
Hi,
I think it's a great idea to use new positions and experiences to spice up your sex life. I'm not sure what all you've tried, so let me offer you a few suggestions.
href="http://www.sexualpositionsfree.com/">This is a great reference for a lot of fun sexual positions. I'd check it out and see if there's anything there that tickles your fancy. :)
Also, over at href="http://www.sexuality.org they have a number of articles about how to do things like g-spot play and tantric sex. Those also might give you some fun and sexy new ideas.
One thing you might decide to do is to explore your fantasies together, or try role-playing. You can explore milder things like a little bondage in the bedroom (see the sexuality.org link for some suggestions here) or riskier things like public exhibitionism with your lover. If you're not sure how to talk about your fantasies or you're feeling shy about these suggestions, you might want to check out Carol Queen's href="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0940208164/qid=1015865778/sr=8-4/ref=sr_8_67_4/002-1205694-1552036">Exhibitionism for the Shy.
One final thought I'd like to mention. Don't assume that new sexual positions or experiences can compensate for problems elsewhere in the relationship. If you guys are not communicating well outside the bedroom, that's going to show up in bed, too. So don't forget that love, romance and sexuality are often inter-related, and that problems in one area can be caused by problems in other areas.
Good luck, and have fun! :)
BlaiseReviewed by: Patricia Fawver Ph.D. in Sexology
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