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My husband has been masturbating for years, and I don't have a problem with self-pleasure, as long as there is no danger and it is not a replacement for sexual relations together. However, in recent months, his technique has been to insert things directly into his penis. Though alarmed, I thought "who am I to say what feels good for him" and I would have left it at that, if I had not witnessed on more than one ocassion, that he stimulates himself until blood (and sometimes it appears to be a goodly amount) is present, then ejaculates. I am concerned about him. I perceive this "normal" (masturbation itself)activity to have crossed the boundaries of safe and sane sexual practices.
In addition, as he does not want to wear a condom during intercourse with me, and has inserted... who knows what into his body, is there or are there ongoing risks to MY health by his actions?
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Answer:
by Hussein Ghanem: (06/21/2004)
Bleeding through the urethra is a sign of urethral injury. Possible complications might include introduction of infection into the urethra or a urethral stricture. I thus do not find your husband’s technique to be safe and advise him to visit a urologist to evaluate for possible complications. I also advise psychiatric consultation and marriage counseling.
Best wishes, Hussein Ghanem, MD
Reviewed by Sexual Health Editorial Team
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