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I recently had sex with my girlfriend, and I did not use a condom. I clearly pulled out before I ejaculated but what I want to know is: can she possibly be pregnant even if I did not ejaculate inside of her? What are the odds? How should I approach her about my question, because I have not talked to her about this yet. THank You
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Answer:
by Georgan Gregg: (05/26/2004)
Yes, it’s possible for her to be pregnant without you ejaculating inside her. Withdrawal is better than no birth control, but very unreliable. The odds are low & would have to do with her ovulation timing & your pre-ejaculatory fluid (“pre-cum”), which contains some sperm. The possibility that she’s pregnant further decreases if this is the only time you didn’t use a condom & they were always used correctly. Approach your girlfriend with honest, loving concern about your sexual relationship.
Talking to your girlfriend may feel uncomfortable, but it’s a real chance for emotional growth and a more mature relationship. When you feel the time is right, begin by speaking to her, in your own words, about your need to talk about something important to both of you & ask if now is a good time. If it’s not, make a “date” to have private time sufficient for a long discussion. Start on a positive note, perhaps your feelings about her, & tell her about your search for information due to worry about unplanned pregnancy. After sharing what you learned, you can jointly decide how to be sure birth control is more reliable. Such as, how to be sure condoms are always readily available, how her help in putting on the condom can be part of your love?making (very sexy stuff!) & whether spermicidal foam should be added for greater protection. Dealing with these issues in an informed, straightforward, sensitive manner will enhance your relationship. Contact us again anytime.
Reviewed by Sexual Health Editorial Team
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