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Being a woman and knowing that everyone has a different size etc. But I also know that a woman can become loose from having multiple partners because they are different sizes. Such as the term fisting comes to mind and multiple penis penetration at once. I can't see nothing bigger than 6" and the circumference of a half-dollar. My boyfriend doesn't think that a woman can be loose from having sex with different partners, but I know women that have this problem because of their sex lives and how many partners they have. I am not like this and he doesn't see that vaginal weaknesses can be caused from having a pornographic lifestyle. The friends that I referred (two) regret having this lifestyle and can not get tighten up. The GYN even said that they can tell if you are extremely active and that doesn't seem to sink n his thick head. I try to explain that I even have a problem going to the GYN, because the strectching hurts. Were did he get this idea that women can stretch easy and never get out of shape? We tried to put a toy in me with his penis, he was gentle, but it hurt, so he had to pull it out, which I took the thing and threw it, then he just thrusted at me angerily, what did I do? I can't handle larger sizes, they hurt and get stuck, my first partner was large and I didn't enjoy it because he couldn't move-it felt like he was pulling my vaginal walls out every time he moved in and out, but I can't make him understand that I have not been sexual active with multiple partners to be that loose. He is my second and I am his first. I asked my GYN about it and he said that the more sexual partners and experiences you have the more your vaginal walls become weakned along with childbirth.
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by Robert Birch: (05/26/2004)
Women, like men, come in different sizes. The importance thing is good fit. Your boyfriend needs to understand that you are by nature tight and he cannot do things with you that he might be able to do with other women.
There are women who involuntarily tighten up when entry is attempted and intercourse becomes impossible or painful regardless of the man's size. This condition is known as "vaginismus." If you have a tendency to tighten, you have probably discovered how important it is to relax at the point of entry.Reviewed by Sexual Health Editorial Team
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