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I need your advice, can you help me and give your advice about sex, because my wife is not satisfy with me. I am married, 1 year before. anybody can help me, where should I get sex specialist? she want I fuck her for alteast 2 to 3 minutes everytime. But I cannot fuck her for 2-3 minues, becuase before I fucking her my sperm is leak. That is the reason. I try everything, that time I thinking other things, but my sperm is leak, My wife is not satisfy with me. She want to leave me and divorce. But I dont want to leave her and diveroce her. Plese write me how to fuck her atleast 3 minues everytime. Please help me in this regard. I am waiting for your email reply soon. Regards.
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Answer:
by Yvonne Fulbright: (05/23/2004)
The sexual scenario you describe is premature ejaculation - a condition during which a man ejaculates faster than he wants to. It is one of the most common male sexual dysfunctions, and is mostly psychological in nature - most commonly due to anxiety.
To overcome premature ejaculation, you should see a sex therapist. It would be most helpful if your wife could go to sessions with you as well. Until you are able to visit with a sex therapist, try using a condom during sex. A condom dulls the senses of your penis so that you can delay ejaculation - at least for a little longer. You may also want to try masturbating before having sex with your wife. Give yourself a little time to "recharge" before engaging in sex play with her. Having released yourself once, you will be able to hold off a little longer during sexual intercourse and concentrate on her pleasures.
Also, to further avoid early ejaculation, try performing the Squeeze Technique. As you near the point of ejaculatory ievitability, that point when you feel that you can't stop your orgasm, you or your wife should squeeze and apply pressure on your penis using your thumb and one or two of your forefingers, either at the base of your penis or at the ridge under the head.
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