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I have two questions, 1. is there a male g spot and where is it?
2. I have had 3 partners and have only had one orgasm with the one im with now
who is my boyfriend of 7 months. I had my first one about a month and a
week ago, and i was wondering why im having problems with haveing an orgasm.
please help,
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Answer:
by Konstance McCaffree: (12/26/2004)
Thanks very much for your question. Let me answer the first one. There is no known male G-Spot because the male body has many of its most sensitive nerve endings on the outside. Almost anywhere on the penis, between the penis and anus and around the scrotum are very sensitive in the male.
In the female there appears to be an especially sensitive area that is labeled the G-Spot inside the walls of the vagina, which don't generally have much erotic sensation in them. Since the vagina is used for more than sexual arousal (birth of a baby, and exit tube for menstruation) it does not have the sensation in it that the male has around the penis.
Now for your second question. It is not unusual for a woman to not have an orgasm. Just because you have had three partners and just recently had your first orgasm, only means that you and your partner were able to get in the right positions, or do the stimulation necessary for you to orgasm.
There are many reasons why it takes some time for a woman to have an orgasm (and over 25% in the U.S. never have one). Women are not taught about their bodies, especially the sexual arousal parts. Unless a woman has had experience with masturbating to orgasm it is not likely that she even knows how her body arouses. It is different for each woman since we need different types of stimulation to create an orgasm.
It is important that a partner touch the woman's clitoris. Most women don't have an orgasm during intercourse, especially when she is learning about her body. It is the external area, the clitoris, that is more likely to trigger an orgasm. If during intercourse, the clitoris is not stimulated by the position the couple is in, or unless there is an attempt by the partner to stimulate the clitoris, most women will not have an orgasm.
Other things, like fear of pregnancy or anxiety of being with a new partner, don't allow a person to be able to relax and let their body feel the pleasures of sexual arousal. Alcohol and other drugs also keep a person from feeling really aroused to the point of orgasm.
I hope this is helpful and that you realize that there is nothing wrong with you. You just need to get to know your own body and to help your partner stimulate you in ways that will help you create an orgasm. Usually having intercourse as the only sexual behavior doesn't help. It is the other touching of the body that may be the best source of an orgasm. Reviewed by: Patricia Fawver Ph.D. in Sexology
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