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Topic: Premature or Rapid Ejaculation (less than a minute)
1.Come out very fast
2.After come out hard to get erection again.
3.Sometime I lost erection during sex.
I don't feel good for my wife. Please help me!!!
I'm married since 1.5 years but I still have erection and premature ejaculation problem.
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Answer:
by Robert Birch: (05/16/2004)
Dear Friend,
It appears that your biggest problem is your anxiety. Anxiety will cause rapid ejaculation... but you did not say how fast you were ejaculating. Remember, if you are not having sex with your wife on a regular basis of if you are thrusting rapidly without stopping, you will probably ejaculate in 2 to 3 minutes. That is not premature ejaculation... that is average! Men can learn how to slow down and last longer. The video titled "You Can Last Longer" may be of help to you.
Most men, after ejaculating, cannot get a second erection and so you are normal here also.
The main thing you must do is try to relax. Find as many ways as you can to give pleasure to your wife. Remember, most women cannot have an orgasm during intercourse, so even if you could last longer, she might not make it. So you and she must explore to find that will please her. See if it works better if she gets on top of you... try new positions.
Read some books together to get ideas. Try to have fun together... that's what sex is all about when you are not trying to make a baby. If you live in a place where there are sex therapists, it would help if the two of you talked with someone who is trained to deal with sexual concerns.
Robert W. Birch, Ph.D.
Sexologist
Reviewed by Sexual Health Editorial Team
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