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Question:
I get a erection, but am not able to maintain it for more that a 5 seconds, as soon as my penis comes in contact with the vagina it ejaculates. This causes shame and humiliation to me. Please suggest if anything can be done on this defect.
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Answer:
by Robert Birch: (05/16/2004)
If you are indeed ejaculating within seconds, you either need to learn to relax or you should be ejaculating more frequently (and probably both). There is a strategy for learning better ejaculatory control which takes a fair amount of time and works best with a cooperative partner. This learning program is outlined in my book Male Sexual Endurance which is described at http://oralcaress.com, as well as in the excellent book by Dr. Helen Kaplan, PE: Overcoming Premature Ejaculation. However, given that your response is so quick, if you are having ejaculations on a regular and frequent basis (alone and with a partner), you may benefit from one of the medications that physicians are now prescribing to help men with a rapid ejaculatory response. Even with medication (that you cannot take for the rest of you life) you should see a qualified sex therapist or read one of the books on the topic. Ejaculatory control is something you can learn, but even though medication may slow you down a bit, you will not learn anything by taking a pill. Find a qualified sex therapist in our geographic area by going to http://assect.org.
Reviewed by Sexual Health Editorial Team
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