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I want to demand to you some questions about a big problem of sex I have which cause me much embarassments in ..certain situations!
I have noticed that very often, when I taking back the skin of the head of the cock I discover that is covered with white substance like cheese with strong odor smelling bad. For this cause I have lot of embarassment when I make the love because often I not want to be naked with the women for the fear to not be clean_there!!
A few years ago with a girl that I went with, happened this: we were out in the country a evening of the summer and she was excited very much and she become naked and wanted that I am naked also. I did but I stayed with the my panties on..but _she insisted very much and she taked them off because she desired to take the cock in the mouth for to make me a ..(I do'nt know the name in English) You know, if the cock is not in the erection the skin cover the head...but at that point I could'nt have control myself and I had the erection strongly for the excitation so the skin of the cock come back and leaved the head discovered with this substance and a odor very strong come out in air around! I am sure that the girl has sniffed the bad odor, but she not telled me probably for not to cause me the embarassement!
I feeled so much shame and embarassement for this!!
Now I would like to know this : what this substance? It is natural or not? It is the natural fluids of the body of the man? Sorry for the long letter, but I very greatly apreciate your answer because I' m in the situation of very embarassment about that the women sniff this odor strong when I am nude without the panties! Thank you very much,
P.S. Pardon my English bad!
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Answer: by Robert Birch: (05/16/2004)
I am happy you wrote to us, for we are here to help if we can. Do not feel bad about your English. I understood you without any difficulty. My Spanish would the much worse than your English. You are uncircumcised, meaning that the foreskin has not been removed from your penis. This is the natural state and most European men are not circumcised. There can be a problem, however, because there is an oily (like oil) substance that collects (builds up) under the foreskin. This body fluid is natural and it is called "smegma." Since under the foreskin it is moist (wet), warm and dark, it is easy for bacteria to grow in this area. It is the bacteria that causes the smegma to smell.
You must pull back the foreskin and wash the head of your penis every day and you must also wash it very well before going out on a date with a woman. That substance is very natural and should be less of a problem if you keep the head of your penis very clean. I hope your embarrassment will end and I wish you good sex without worry about that smegma.
Robert W. Birch, Ph.D.
Sexologist
Reviewed by Sexual Health Editorial Team
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