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I have a fetish with worn womens underwear, but only girls I know and have gained a liking toward, Namely my wives sisters. I cannot help myself when I get a chance to steal a pair, which I use in later masturbation sessions. What can I do to help myself to not do this? also the pair I got today has a dried substance in the crotch area, I would be sick if it were semen, is there any way to tell?
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by Poosha Darbha: ()
Some men have an especial sexual attraction towards inanimate objects belonging to the opposite sex such as panties, shoes, bras. If it is an exclusive or predominant source of sexual arousal, jeopardizes work, interferes with the reationship with others or otherwise intrudes into other aspects of life, it can be termed as a paraphilia called fetishism. (Paraphilia in turn means alternative liking or love for something outside of the usual).
However, for some people, the attraction towards these objects is one of the many sources of sexual arousal. In other words, the object of their choice (such as the worn panty) is not a must for their sexual arousal.
The first situation requires a professional therapist's help while a person in the second situation can benefit from counselling if the problem causes concern.
From what you write, I got the impression that you are concerned about this problem, have attempted without success, some self-help techniques such as avoiding going to your wife's sisters' houses(s).
I encourage you to consult a sex counsellor/therapist or a psychiatrist experienced in therapy of paraphilias, not beacsue it is dangerous but because you run the risk of being caught while procuring the fetish, or of being rejected by friends, partners, or family if your secret is discovered. In some cases it might even affect the self confidence of a person.
You can seek the help of professional sexology organizations such as AASECT to find a counsellor near your locality. The expert will determine the nature and intensity of your problem, will employ a suitable therapeutic modality such as cognitive behaviour therpay, clubbed if necessary with homework assignments of self-control techniques. It is easier to come out of the situation with an expert's guidance and follow-up, than trying selfhelp techniques by yourself. Reviewed by: Scott Gross M. Ed.
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