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Question:
I am a 49 year old male. I have always had difficulty in achieving an orgasm. Lately, I have begun to wonder whether an inherited disease is a factor. I inherited Charcot-Marie-Tooth (CMT) disease from my mother. I hope this is a false fear, but this is my first step towards finding a cause. Next would you recommend a trip to a urologist? At any rate, whether CMT effects sensation in the penis is my primary question. Thank you.

Answer:
by Annette Owens:
(06/02/2004)
Since I do not have much experience with patients with Charcot-Marie-Tooth (CMT) syndrome, I checked with a neurologist who treats patients with this disease. He has never encountered problems with sexual dysfunction among his patients with CMT. He passed the following reference on to me:

Bird TD, Lipe HP, Crabtree LD: Impotence associated with the Charcot-Marie-Tooth syndrome. European Neurology; 1994; 34, 155-157.

If you do not have a medical library near you, a public library can most likely get you a copy of this article, if you are interested.

The lack of information about sexual problems related to CMT does not necessarily imply that these problems do not exist in that particular patient population. It may be that patients hesitate to mention sexual concerns at their check-ups. Do you have the possibility to meet with a sex therapist? A sexuality specialist would be able to inquire about the nature of your problem achieving orgasm. On the basis of a detailed history, the sexual health professional would then be able to guide you with respect to which treatment would be best for you, and whether a trip to a urologist is recommended or not. You can contact www.aasect.org for information about how to find a sex therapist near you.

Do you have a sexual partner, or are you single? How do you masturbate? Do you have any guilt feelings related to masturbation? To give you an idea about how frequently people in the USA masturbate, I will cite a few numbers from a recent study, "The Social Organization of Sexuality. Sexual Practices in the United States" (1994) by Lauman, E.O. et al.; University of Chicago Press. A more popular version of this book is called "Sex in America. A Definitive Study" (1994) by Michael, R.T. et al.; Warner Books. The study involved 3,432 men and women from all social, educational, cultural, and religious backgrounds, and living all over the USA. Since participants in the study were chosen randomly by a computer program, the study population is highly representative of the entire nation. Following are the numbers of people who masturbate once a week or more: men 26.7%, women 7.6%; numbers of people who masturbate not at all: men 36.7%, women 58.3%. These numbers clearly show that masturbation is a common practice in our culture. However, it is interesting to note that 54.0% of men and 46.8% of women do feel guilty after masturbation.

I do encourage you to explore your own sexuality, and find out what feels good to you. It may be that you need more stimulation, and that using vibrating sex toys would provide the necessary amount of stimulation in order to reach orgasm. Check out the Good Vibrations web site at www.goodvibes.com for ideas and suggestions. They also carry a book called "The new Good Vibrations guide to sex" which I can recommend reading. Good luck! Annette Owens, MD PhD

Reviewed by Sexual Health Editorial Team

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