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Question:
What I was wondering is if a gynecologist could prove that I am a virgin. What is it they would be looking for in order to know that I have not had sexual intercourse? If I were to have them write something up that says I am a virgin what would it say? This is very important to me. Please reply as soon as you can. Thank you very much for your time.

Answer:
by Yvonne Fulbright:
(05/15/2004)
It seems like you are desperate for an answer and something very important to you is a stake. Maybe it is a cherished relationship? Perhaps I am wrong. If it is a relationship and that relationship hinges on you being a virgin than maybe you should re-exam it. Unfortunately, there is no sure way a gynecologist could prove that you are a virgin. On the brighter side, there is no sure way they can prove you are not a virgin. Historically, it has been thought that an intact hymen, or a lack of one, was an indication of whether or not a woman is a virgin. (The hymen is a thin, tissue membrane that stretches across some, but not all, of the opening of the vagina.) Today, the medical field knows that this is not always true. A doctor cannot usually tell if a woman is a virgin by conducting a pelvic exam since the presence or absence of an intact hymen isn't an accurate indication of prior sexual behavior. A female's hymen can be broken, torn, or stretched at any early age by various exercises, sports activities, or the insertion of fingers or objects (like tampons) into the vagina. It is also difficult for a physician to determine your virginity status since some women are born with only a partial hymen or none at all. In addition, for women who have had sex, intercourse doesn't always tear the hymen, and instead may simply stretch it.

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