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I am 17 and have recently become sexually active with my boyfriend, who I love very much. My parents, however, are very religious, and would not approve of our relationship if they knew we were sexually active. They may even go so far as trying to prevent me from seeing him.
This leads me to my question. Right now my boyfriend uses condoms to prevent me from getting pregnant, but I would like to go on birth control as soon as possible. Is there a way I could go on birth control without my parents finding out? I will be out of the house next year, but still be a dependent on them for health insurance. Do most insurance plans cover birth control? How much does birth control cost, on average, per month? Would Planned Parenthood be of any assistance?
Thank you for your time with my question.
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Answer:
by Larry Siegel: ()
Thanks for taking the time to write in with your question. I'm glad you took the extra step to really find out what your rights and options are. I certainly understand your concern over your parents attitudes and the implications on you and your relationship. Most family planning clinics (ie, Planned Parenthood, health department) will provide you with low-cost birth control without any parental permission (did I mention low cost?) and the information and records remain confidential. I would strongly recommend that both you and your boyfriend make an appointment with a family planning counselor and discuss what type of contraception will be best for both of you. By openly discussing birth control options together, you will be well on your way to good, open communication in the relationship.
I wish you much success, happiness, and fulfillment. Take care and be well.
Larry SiegelReviewed by: Patricia Fawver Ph.D. in Sexology
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