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hi,
This question is not about me but my girlfriend. We have been having sex for about 6 months and have been going out for a year and in that time I have not been able to give her an orgasm. we are both in our late teens (I'm 19 turning 20)and she has only ever had an orgasm once from oral stimulation.
This problem has placed a lot of strain on our relationship and she does not feel like having sex anymore because of this.
I have tried everything and when I get her close to acheiving it she says that the sensation goes away is there a problem in the way I am stimulating her clitoris (inconsistently) or a problem with her, she gets very wet sometimes and if I continue for to long she says it hurts ??
Please help me Dr Logan
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Answer:
by Logan Levkoff: ()
Thank you for submitting your question. I know that this can be difficult and frustrating. Every woman’s body has different needs and desires – there is no one thing to do to make a woman have an orgasm. However, what I can suggest is that your girlfriend tell you exactly what she likes and what turns her on. If she masturbates, she knows what will bring her to orgasm and she can tell you. If she does not masturbate, it may be a good way for her to understand how her body responds sexually. But you both need to relax and take it slowly. When you are thinking too much and concentrating too much on "the orgasm", it will be more difficult to achieve. I hope this information helps, and I am happy that you are concerned for your girlfriend’s sexual well-being. Take care. Reviewed by: Patricia Fawver Ph.D. in Sexology
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