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A problem which you must have come across so many times. To start with I have severe premature ejaculation problem. When I start feeling or when a girl starts feeling me I ejaculate within seconds in my underpants. And this is frustrating. To start with my sexual history, I've been sexually active since I was 12 years. I am not a gay but I used to have sex with my cousin. We indulged in kissing and having good fun. Our private parts used to touch because we had fun by taking off our clothes. I always had a very good errection and never ejaculated without masturbating. But when I had sex with him the last time,i.e. when I was 15 years old, we induldged in anal sex. When i pissed after that, the urine smelled really bad, but I ignored it thinking it must be due to anal sex. After this I didn't do anything for a year. When I was 16, I tried making out with another guy but I ejaculated as soon as we started foreplay. I was ashamed. But later, when I was 17-18 I tried making out with a girl and the same thing happened. As soon as she started feeling me, I ejaculated in my underpants. This happened 6-7 times with her. I was in deep trouble. I was really scared, I thought I contracted some STD. Then I got my semen culture done and there was E.coli in semen. I was prescribed antibiotics which flushing out the infection. Now I am 20 years old and I don't know if I'll be able to have a satisfied sex life with my wife. Sometimes I feel that I won't come across premature ejaculation as the infection has been cleared. But when I masturbate, I ejaculate within 30-40 seconds.I have read a lot about this but I know that squeeze and other methods really won't work in my problem(ejaculating during foreplay). Now I want to consult a doctor regarding this and get my physical examination done.I got my STD tests done(VDRL, TPHA, HIV 1 and HIV 2). The tests are negative. Is it possible to have this problem of ejaculation during foreplay due to an infection because I have this problem after having E.coli in my semen.What can cause such a problem and what can be done about it. Please help.
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by Logan Levkoff: ()
Thank you for submitting your question. It is a very important one and I want to make sure that you are answered correctly. Because I am not a medical doctor or therapist (and many of the details you provided are medical and therapeutic), I am passing this question on to colleagues who can answer it correctly. Reviewed by: Patricia Fawver Ph.D. in Sexology
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