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Hello Sir. I have been married for about a year now. When i have sex with my wife, i do not use a condom because when i wear a condom, my skin gets rolled in and the inner portion gets exposed, this pains and also causes no sensation when my pennis is inside her vagina, what i do is, i remove my pennis at the time of evacuatin. But even when i don't use a condom, when i put my pennis inside, i get no feeling, sometimes i get the same problem of the skin getting rolled in and i experience complete dryness. It feels as if i'm thrusting only to satisy her, then after she gets satisfied i masturbate on her body to satisfy myself, this entire process lasts for 10 minutes. Please tell me how can i ENJOY sex, i want to get some fun while my pennis is inside her because that is the way i think it is supposed to be. Please help me out. Also tell me how to put on a condom. Thank you.

Answer:
by Melissa BEE: ()
If you are both monogamous and don't sleep with anyone else, then perhaps another form of contraception may be preferable. What about the diaphragm, IUD or contraceptive pill? It would be a good idea to talk this over together. As far as your loss of feeling: It could be as simple as the type of condoms you are using. If it is too thick for you, it may be the reason you have such a loss of sensation. Try a sheer type, or contact one of the adult shops for a sample package - of all different types. Some adult stores sell individual condoms. Putting on a condom: As soon as the penis is hard, put the condom on. It is important to put it on quickly, as semen (pre-cum) may leak from the urethral opening. This fluid may contain tiny amounts of sperm. Firstly, open the packet, being careful not to tear the condom with your teeth or fingernails. Squeeze the condom out, but don't unroll the condom yet. Make sure the condom is the right way up. If it doesn't roll out freely, it could be the wrong way around. Squeeze the teat on the tip of the condom to remove the air bubble. For an uncircumcised penis, pull back the foreskin. Hold the condom against the tip of the penis. Unroll it all the way down to the base of the penis. Add a water-based lubricant to the top of the condom before insertion. Good Luck, Melissa BEE

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