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I finger my girlfriend sometimes and sometimes I dont wash my hand. Lately in the back wall of the vagina I feel a small"bump", like a small pimple, where she likes to be touched. The pimple like structure is smooth and doesnt hurt her. I'm afraid of telling her since I dont want to get her mad. What should I do?
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by Georgan Gregg: ()
Communicating openly & with love is an important part of how you show you care. Find a comfortable time when you can tell her how important she is & that you want to be sure you please her when you make love. As long as you speak from the heart & put her feelings first, the actual words aren’t so important. You could even tell her, truthfully, that you’ve been reading about female anatomy. Each woman reacts uniquely to being touched, my guess is that you are feeling either her cervix or her G spot.
The inside of the vagina feels a bit like the inside of the mouth — some parts are smooth & soft, while other parts are firm. Her cervix is the bottom of her uterus that sort of hangs down into the highest part of her vagina. Some women enjoy, or actually orgasm, by having their cervix stimulated by hand, sex toys, or during vaginal intercourse.
Her G spot is behind her pubic bone on the front of her vagina. You can find her G spot by putting your finger all the way inside her vagina palm up & curling it as if signaling someone to come forward. Some women initially feel like they have the urge to urinate when the G spot is pressed. That doesn’t last long. It soon becomes pleasure & some women orgasm. Be sure to use firm pressure when playing with the G spot.
By the way, always wash your hands before making love. Contact us again if we can be of further help.
Reviewed by: Patricia Fawver Ph.D. in Sexology
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