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Question:
my labia hangs down 6cm is this abnormal....i feel uncomfotable at the idea of sex because i am afraid of my parners reaction towards my vagina
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Answer:
by Larry Siegel: (06/25/2004)
Hi and thanks for taking the time to write in with your question. I can understand how you would feel "freakish" if you saw your body as being so much different from what you believe to be the norm. Please rest assured that many women have labia that hang down a bit, whether it's 2 cm or 6 cm. Women's vulvas, just like men's penises, come in many different shapes and sizes -just like people. In fact, there have been photographic exhibits showing a wide variety of vulva, some actually resembling flowers and butterflies.
If it is something that you absolutely can't deal with or it interferes with insertion into your vagina, you can discuss what can be done with your doctor or gynecologist. In some cases, a surgical procedure can shorten your labia. This is something that may be a bit extreme, however, but it's an option nonetheless. The most important thing, I believe, is to accept your body as it is, knowing that everyone's bodies are different; no 2 are ever exactly the same. If you allow yourself to accept and explore your body, you might actually find that your labia can be an added source of pleasure. I know of women who have extended labia and get great pleasure in having them pulled and tugged on. The trick is finding what feels good to you. It can then be something else to share with a partner, when you are ready for it.
I hope this was somewhat helpful to you. Take care and be well. Feel free to write again if you have other questions or concerns.
Larry SiegelReviewed by Sexual Health Editorial Team
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