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whenever i'm about to have an orgasm i feel like i never ejaculate. is this normal? i feel like i get so close && then i cant hold it in or something so it just never gets to that point. thanks for your help.
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Answer:
by Raven James: (09/03/2006)
Well, I am a little bit confused about the way you worded your question, but I will try to answer it the best I can. As far as "ejaculation" goes for women, the actual release of vaginal fluids during orgasm for women is not a common occurence. Most women will have an orgasm without the release of fluid from the vagina. So, I am not quite sure if you are having an orgasm, or just concerned that there is no female fluid with orgasm. If you are not having an orgasm, this is also very normal for many women. It may take years of sexual experience (through mutual masturbation, mastubation by oneself, trying out new sexual positions, etc) to get to know what specific techniques arouse you as an individual. The clitoris is the main source of pleasure for female orgasm, and stimlulating the clitoris, rather than the vagina is usually a good place to start. The clitoris is located below your navel and above your vagina, just below your pubic area. If you use your fingers to spread you vaginal lips (labia) apart, you will notice a small nub of tissue directly above the vaginal opening. Using touch and lubricants, you can experiment with yourself to see how you respond to various pressure and speed of your touch. Some women like the added pressure from a vibrator, and experimenting with one can help you know your individual sexual resopnse better. The Sexual Health website also sells a variety of vibrators. I hope this was helpful, write back if you have a need for more specific information.Reviewed by: Kathleen VanKirk DHS
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