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I've been with my girlfriend for a few months now and we have no problems in our relationship except for one thing, try as I might, I cannot get her to have an orgasm when I'm inside of her. It's not that she can't when I'm with her (I can get her to cum very quickly when I go down on her) it's only when we're actually having sex. I've tried going down on her for a bit and then penetrating her, but it still doesn't seem to work. She really seems to enjoy having sex and gets really into it though. She seems to think that it's because she waited so long to actually have sex (until she was 20, she's 21 now) and that she relied so much on oral sex before. Don't get me wrong, I love going down on her, but I would really like to feel her cum when I'm inside of her. I'm willing to try anything, I really hate the fact that I can't seem to get her to have an orgasm that way. Any advice would be much appreciated. Thank you.
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by Farid Abdel Hadi: ()
Thank you for your consultation. First, sex is all this together. The hug, the kiss,up to penetration. Females can get a clitoral or a vaginal orgasm. The clitoral is easier and usually is there before the vaginal, as in your case. The vaginal is more difficult to attain, but is much deeper. She will need some time to (re)adapt to the vaginal orgasm. Now, what you can do is while you are during intercourse, try to stimulate the clitoris. There are many ways through which we can get our sex education. Through many of these ways, the manliness is pictured as the ability to make the female partner attain orgasm through vaginal intercourse. This point needs a second look.Reviewed by: Patricia Fawver Ph.D. in Sexology
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